Good advice from my brother:
If there’s something you don’t want to do, but you feel you should, but you really don’t want to, but you feel you really have to…
either, a) Don’t do it. And make peace with that. or,
b) Do it. And make peace with that.
Do not: Do it, and still feel bad about it!
Because that’s what I do, because it never feels like enough, but it will never be enough.
Tytania 
Your brother is a genius. I feel like I want to print this out and tape it on my mirror.
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He is, Sara. I love him so much.
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This sounds like me too, and yes, my brother would give me the same sensible advice!
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